Titipetral

  My hair I consider ‘stubborn’ just because it hardly relaxes . Hair relaxers does not give the needed appeal. In fact, I had to endure constant hair breakages and discoloration as a result of trying too many hair-relaxers . You see that African virgin hair, tight curls and rough texture with all of its famous kinkiness? That’s exactly how my hair looked just a few hours after retouching. There is actually no hair relaxer that I have not tried, yet it remained the same. And even though I eventually settled for a kit-relaxer that softened it a bit, at least for a few days, it usually returns to status quo afterwards. It is generally said that hair is to be relaxed every quarter, at some point I defied the rule and ‘retouched’ twice in a particular month that I couldn’t wait. I ended up burning my scalp so badly and had to live with the resultant pain for weeks. I resigned to fate at some point and it somehow became habitual for me to scrape off my hair-strands every tw...

Having babies isn’t really the thing but training them to be responsible adults. I have had to listen to parents bemoan who their kids had grown to become, blaming it on peer pressure, outright defiance, improper environment and so on.   And sometimes I wonder why these parents never come to terms with the fact that in most cases, kids are only a modernized version of whom their parents are. Children in a household are privy to the innermost secrets of their parents that the world never gets to see, so they tend to exhibit such traits rather unrepentantly. For instance, a woman that steals, even if it is only from the pocket of her husband has a high tendency of being mothers to kids that pilfers. A promiscuous woman is more likely to raise a sexually immoral for a daughter, than a mother who is decent. A fetish man in privy, or one that wields cutlasses at every slightest provocation and most probably keeps arms and ammunition illegally would raise cultists and arms dealers ...